MIMF

Hey guys. I was fairly active on the forum for quite a while but ran into some hard times.
My beautiful wife of over 41 years, passed away in September from cancer.
I can tell you that this is something I would not wish on my worst enemy.
I have only got into my shop this last few weeks to do a bit of work.

Sorry to hear that Gordon, please accept our deepest condolences.

Nice to have you back, Gordon, and my sympathies for your loss.

Brian from Tatamagouche.

Yes, welcome back.
I look forward to seeing your posts again.

Gordon,

I am all too familiar with the ravages of cancer on all who are involved in the journey. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.

I'm pleased to see you stepping into the shop again. It can be really difficult to resume something of a normal life. Not only are you dealing with your grief and the absence of your partner, I imagine that a big part of your daily schedule and the people you regularly interacted with (during treatments and visits) has changed drastically. It can be hard to know where to start picking up. Allow yourself to engage in things you like, like working in the shop at your own pace and don't rush yourself. But, also allow yourself to find enjoyment in these things.

My condolences and best wishes for you Gordon.

I feel for you Gordon. As time passes in life there are devastating episodes interspersed with more joyous ones. Hopefully there will be some of the latter in your life in the not too distant future. Keep pushing on.

Thanks for your considerations. My wife was my biggest supporter and best friend. I loved her with my whole heart.
Yes, it is a rough patch for sure. The hardest thing is finding new direction.
I am glad to be back in shop though, and I have 3 new guitars and a bass on the go.
I have also started doing some small repairs again. I may put a stop to those for a while, I don't like to have a schedule.

Gordon, I am really sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and reach out to your friends and communities when you need to. I am glad to see you back here and look forward to seeing more of your wonderful work.
-Jim

My condolences and best wishes for you!

Beate

Really sorry for you both to have gone through what you have.
As you can see, we are all glad to have you back on the forum. You've been missed, and have a lot to contribute.
Randy

Thanks again for your warm welcome.
I will be taking pics of the current builds, as they proceed.

Life has some strange twists and turns. Five and a half years ago my wife passed away and my life was upside down.
I though I would get back into the shop right away, but the passion was simply not there any longer.
I did a couple of half hearted repairs, and setups for regular customers, I did a complete restoration of a 1963 D35 Martin.
3 years ago I met a lovely widow lady at widow/widowers social group. We were married just over a year ago.
Last year we renovated the main level of her house, which was in a better location than mine was, AND, built a brand new shop in the huge back yard. I am enthused again. That comes directly from being in love, ad knowing I am loved. The new location is also very exciting. So, here I am again people! Ready to begin making mistakes along with you!

Great to hear Gordon. Sounds like you're on the upswing. Life can be cruel but it's how you recover from the low points. Best wishes